out of my norm

[Nova]

most of the people here that have known me for awhile know i usually keep my personal life pretty close to the vest, but things have just been getting to me lately.

the girl i had been seeing for a while and i split up in may, yeah it was my idea. we were going to be apart for the summer, and my eyes and mind were starting to wander and i was afraid to hurt her like i have other girls in the past. i knew it was a mistake after about a week and a half. she was already back hoem in virginia by then. my pride got in the way of me crawling back right then.

i guess ill save the sob story, after a lot of stuff we decided to work out thing out when we both got back to school, that hasnt gone so well and today was pretty rough. part of me wants her back, but the other parts not sure. i just know it hurts. due some things that happened today i gave her an ultimatum.

i know im young and there're plenty of fish in the sea, just sucks for right now.

[vcr12564]

Sorry for what you're going through Andy.
I know everyone says it, but, things do happen for a reason. It just really sucks. We're here if/when you need us.

[MustangCRZY302]

Best thing to do is just be yourself man. Don't try to change to make somebody else happy. If you aren't happy, it isn't worth it.

[Mustang Leo]

Dude, If you settle now you will never be happy. i understand that relationships have their ups and downs. Right now you are searching for the one. The girl that is going to love you no matter how good or how bad things get. You have to be able to understand that you are NEVER going to change who she is, and as much as you would like to change for her, its just not gonna happen. if you can accept each others quirks up front, then you will be ok later. If you cant get over each others shortcommings, then you will end up fighting the rest of your time together. The real question you have to ask yourself is can you make her happy while being just you? If not, please take my advice and keep looking. 2 pennies

leo

[vcr12564]

Dude, If you settle now you will never be happy. i understand that relationships have their ups and downs. Right now you are searching for the one. The girl that is going to love you no matter how good or how bad things get. You have to be able to understand that you are NEVER going to change who she is, and as much as you would like to change for her, its just not gonna happen. if you can accept each others quirks up front, then you will be ok later. If you cant get over each others shortcommings, then you will end up fighting the rest of your time together. The real question you have to ask yourself is can you make her happy while being just you? If not, please take my advice and keep looking. 2 pennies

leo

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[Quinn]

i'm going threw the sorta same thing but i'm actually engaged. She ain't never gonna change so i'm about threw with it. i love her but i'm not gonna be unhappy. if i was you i would play the field:yes1::yes1:

[Shibby]

if you need to talk Andy, you have my number...

[kdawgg11]

hey man sorry to hear that and if you need anything let me know. If you want my 2 cents just wait and give it time and you will see what you want and if it is the same with her then things will work out and if not just keep looking I have been in that boat as most of us have and I am still looking for the right one but she will come around some day until then I am having fun and enjoying bein me take care man and good luck I wish you the best :)

[drivin-fool]

All I can tell you bro is do what you have to do to be happy. Life is too short to go through it miserable. I wish ya the best of luck in your search for Ms.Right.

[Nova]

i appreciate you old folks that have been down this road before sharing your advice :-P

and i know what ya mean quinn. we were no where near a ring though

[vcr12564]

i appreciate you old folks that have been down this road before sharing your advice :-P

and i know what ya mean quinn. we were no where near a ring though

Thanks for reminding us our ages!!!!:p J/K.

[1wildcoupe]

just keep your head up and be strong. believe in the right things and you'll be shown the right direction. your still young and have a long life ahead of ya so make the decisions that you believe/know are right for you. only you know what makes you happy in life and those decisions should be made wisely. i hope your situation works itself out the right way and i hope that you end up happy as a final result.

[Nova]

well she told me we arent getting back together, so the next little big im gonna try to keep busy and my mind off her. my fault for letting her go whe nthings were good.

[1wildcoupe]

sorry to hear that bro. it will all work out for ya. if it were meant to be then it would have worked out for ya. keep your head up and your faith strong and i'm sure someone good will come your way!!

[5.0Fury]

Got your txt, You know if you need anything, im right down the hill lol. Come over if ya need a beer and to talk. It Will all be alright, I mean we are in Clemson for gods sake, its like a 4:1 ration girls to guys. U wont have no trouble.:thumbsup1: